Stop fighting the same battle over and over.

You’ve tried to stop. You’ve made promises to yourself. Used filters. Found accountability. Tried harder.
But somehow, you end up back in the same place.

The Journey helps you understand what’s driving your unwanted sexual behavior so you can stop simply managing it and start changing it at the source.

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The assignment questions have really challenged me. Instead of replaying the same scripts just for the sake of it, the questions force me to dig deeper & ponder on a different level.

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The Journey has been life-altering for both me and my group. There is so much to unpack inside the episodes.

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I wouldn't trade this course for anything. It's showing me a path to freedom I didn't know was possible. I recommend it to any and everyone who's ready to move forward.

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You need to know, this course saved my life. I was genuinely hopeless, but now I know that I am worthy of help.

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I am a Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist (CSAT) and have replaced my former curriculum with The Journey and my group progress and participation has exploded.

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After 40 years of struggling with unwanted sexual behaviors, this course is the first to really help me understand myself and offer me hope.

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You don’t need more willpower.

Unwanted sexual behavior doesn’t happen in a vacuum. Your story matters. Your experiences matter. Your relationships, pain, loneliness, anger, disappointment, and desires can all shape the ways you seek relief, escape, connection, or control.

Willpower may help you stop for a while. But it doesn’t answer the deeper question: Why do I keep coming back to this?

The Journey helps you look beneath your behavior, understand the patterns behind it, and change what’s driving the cycle.

Imagine not having to spend the rest of your life fighting this.

The goal isn’t to get better at resisting.

It’s to understand yourself, your story, and your patterns so the behavior no longer holds the same power over you.

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Go deeper than the behavior

Over 5-months, you'll learn the story behind your unwanted sexual behavior. Through 18 lessons, you’ll explore:

What may be driving your behavior
How your story has shaped your patterns
The triggers/emotions that keep the cycle going
The role of relationships, shame, desire, and pain
How to build a different relationship with yourself and your sexuality

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Meet Jay Stringer

Jay Stringer is a licensed mental health counselor, ordained minister, and author of Unwanted.
His research with more than 3,800 men and women found that unwanted sexual behavior isn’t random.

Your behavior has a story. And understanding that story can change the way you move forward.


The Full Experience:

Find freedom from your unwanted sexual behavior or addiction through the full journey.

The Journey Course

5-Month Course

$ 24.99 /month

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  • What’s Included:

  • 18 Learning Modules with Video

  • Sexual Behavior Self-Assessment

  • Participant Guidebook or Leader's Guide

  • The Heart of Man Film

  • 4 Porn Triggers Ebook

  • Private Facebook Group (Optional)